Tag: spiritual growth

  • Restored and Redeemed

    A NEW BOOK FOR YOU!

    Why God Isn’t Finished with You Yet

    If there’s one message that echoes across the entire Hold Fast journey, it’s this:

    God is not done with you.

    You might have limped through life. You might have failed publicly or quietly walked away from something you once burned for. But grace? Grace doesn’t write people off—it writes them back in.

    “He restores my soul.”
    —Psalm 23:3

    In Chapter 8, we look at the beauty and power of being restored and redeemed—not as a concept, but as a lived reality. We zoom in on the story of John Mark, a young leader who blew it early on… but got called back in.

    Paul once rejected him. Later, he begged for him.

    That’s redemption.

    In this final chapter post, you’ll discover:

    • What true restoration looks like (hint: it’s more than forgiveness)
    • Why your failure doesn’t cancel your future
    • How to partner with God in the process of being made new
    • Why your limp can become your ministry

    There’s a story I share in this chapter that’s painfully close to home—a moment I thought I’d disqualified myself. But what I thought was the end? God used it as a new beginning.

    Restoration isn’t soft. It’s powerful. It’s the moment God breathes back purpose into a weary, wounded soul.

    And if that’s you?

    You’ll want to download the “Redemption Reboot” worksheet—a tool to help you reflect, reset, and realign with the God who still wants to use your story.

    Friend, the limp is not the prize.
    The prize is the friendship of God you’ve forged through every chapter.

    He restores. He redeems.
    And He’s not finished yet.


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  • Staying the Course

    A NEW BOOK FOR YOU!

    How to Keep Going When You Feel Like Giving Up

    Some days, just turning up feels like a win.

    If you’ve ever found yourself spiritually exhausted—wondering if the prayers are working, if your obedience matters, or if anyone even notices—you’re not alone.

    Chapter 7 of Hold Fast gets real about one of the hardest, holiest disciplines: staying the course.

    Because while the world loves a big start, God honours a faithful finish.

    “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
    —Galatians 6:9

    That’s the promise. But the waiting is where most people fall off the trail.

    This chapter explores:

    • What it really means to follow Jesus for the long haul
    • Why Elisha refused to stop short—even when invited to
    • The subtle danger of “slow fade” spirituality
    • How to build resilience through spiritual rhythms, not hype

    You’ll also hear a personal story from a moment I wanted to walk away—but didn’t. And how that moment didn’t bring resolution… but it did strengthen my roots.

    Faithfulness is rarely flashy. It’s quiet. Hidden. Sometimes unseen by others. But God sees.

    He sees your persistence.
    He sees your secret obedience.
    He sees your quiet yes when you feel unseen and unqualified.

    To help you build endurance, download this week’s tool: the “Stay the Course Inventory.” It helps you check in on your rhythms, your rest, and your reasons for staying faithful—even when the fire’s faded.

    Let this be your reminder:

    You don’t need perfect faith.
    You just need to keep showing up.

    Because the harvest is coming.
    And you’re closer than you think.


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  • Wrestling with God

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    When Wrestling with God Is the Most Faithful Thing You Can Do

    Have you ever wrestled with God?

    Not walked away from Him, but wrestled with Him—face-to-the-floor, questions flying, soul aching kind of wrestle?

    Then you’re not weak. You’re in good biblical company.

    In Hold Fast Chapter 6, we explore the profound truth that wrestling with God isn’t rebellion—it’s relationship. It means you’re still in the ring. Still holding on. Still believing there’s something worth contending for.

    “So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak.”
    —Genesis 32:24

    Jacob didn’t walk away unchanged. He walked away limping and blessed. Marked. Transformed.

    This chapter—and this blog—dives into what happens when we stop pretending and start bringing God our real selves: the grief, the anger, the confusion, the “I thought You said” prayers.

    Here’s what you’ll learn in this post:

    • Why wrestling doesn’t mean you’ve failed—it means you’re hungry for breakthrough
    • The difference between resisting God and refusing to let go of Him
    • How Jesus Himself wrestled in Gethsemane, proving it’s holy ground, not heresy
    • What it means to be marked by struggle and still move forward in faith

    I’ll also introduce you to a personal story where I found myself in a nighttime wrestle—no halo, no clarity, just raw honesty. And I came out of it with deeper intimacy than I ever expected.

    This week’s download? A simple but powerful journal tool called the “Wrestle Sheet”—designed to help you articulate the struggle, bring it before God, and listen for what He might be shaping in you through it.

    You don’t need to win the fight.
    You just need to stay in it.

    Because some of the deepest blessings come not from the absence of struggle—but from the presence of God in the middle of it.


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  • Growing in God’s Grace

    A NEW BOOK FOR YOU!

    You’re Not Behind—You’re Growing in Grace

    Ever catch yourself thinking, “I should be further along by now”?

    You’ve walked with Jesus for years… and yet old struggles pop up, doubts creep in, and you wonder if you’ve failed some invisible spiritual exam.

    In Hold Fast Chapter 5, we take a deep breath and revisit the life-giving truth that spiritual growth isn’t a straight line—it’s a grace-fuelled journey.

    “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.”
    —2 Peter 3:18

    Grace doesn’t just save you—it sustains you. It’s not the welcome mat to Christianity; it’s the foundation you stand on every single day.

    In this chapter, we unpack:

    • Why grace is the environment for growth, not perfection
    • How John Mark’s story of failure turned into fruit
    • What to do when you’re tired of stumbling over the same things
    • How to shift from striving to receiving

    Spiritual maturity isn’t measured in theological vocabulary or streaks of good behaviour. It looks like quicker repentance, deeper gratitude, more compassion, and less ego.

    You’ll also get access to a practical reflection tool—the “Grace Growth Grid”—to help you track where God’s already at work in you, even when you can’t see it.

    This chapter reminded me of a moment in my own journey when I thought I’d disqualified myself. But God didn’t lecture—He leaned in. That’s what grace does.

    So let this blog be your permission slip to stop performing and start growing.

    You’re not behind.
    You’re not broken.
    You’re being transformed.

    Let grace do its work.


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  • Believing God’s Promises

    A NEW BOOK FOR YOU!

    What to Do When God’s Promise Feels Delayed

    If you’ve ever felt like God gave you a promise—and then went quiet—you’re not alone.

    Welcome to the waiting room of faith.

    In Hold Fast Chapter 4, we walk through what it really looks like to believe God’s promises, not when it’s easy—but when it’s excruciating.

    Because the reality is this: faith doesn’t always look like confidence. Sometimes, it looks like tears, stubborn hope, and saying, “I still believe” even when the miracle hasn’t come.

    “Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for He who promised is faithful.”
    —Hebrews 10:23

    The key? Focus less on the promise and more on the One who made it.

    In this chapter, you’ll explore:

    • Why God’s delays are never denials
    • The difference between faith and fantasy
    • How Abraham, Joseph, and John Mark all had to live in the gap
    • Three practical ways to keep your faith alive when the wait stretches on

    One of the most powerful ideas in this chapter is that waiting is where trust is forged. God isn’t testing you to torment you—He’s training your heart to lean on His unchanging character, not shifting circumstances.

    There’s also a moment in this chapter where I share a story from my own life—where everything looked stuck, but behind the scenes, God was preparing breakthrough. That story might sound a lot like yours.

    At the end of the blog, grab the free worksheet “Promise Under Pressure” to reflect on what you’re holding onto—and how to keep hope alive in the waiting.

    Don’t quit the promise.
    Don’t bury the dream.
    You’re closer than you think.


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  • Why Obedience Isn’t Restriction—It’s Freedom


    A NEW BOOK FOR YOU!

    Let’s be honest. The word obedience doesn’t exactly light up the room.

    It can sound rigid. Religious. Heavy.

    But what if we’ve misunderstood it?

    In Hold Fast Chapter 3, we unpack what it really means to obey God—not as slaves to rules, but as friends of God who trust His way is best.

    “If you love me, keep my commandments.”
    —John 14:15

    Here’s the truth: obedience isn’t about control—it’s about relationship. When Jesus spoke those words, He wasn’t demanding performance. He was inviting intimacy. Love leads to obedience, not the other way around.

    This chapter explores:

    • Why obedience is the natural outflow of trust
    • How Elisha’s refusal to quit revealed a heart aligned with God
    • The difference between rebellion and wrestling (yes, there’s a difference!)
    • Four common obstacles to obedience—and how to overcome them

    Sometimes, obeying God means staying when it’s easier to run. Forgiving when it hurts. Speaking truth when silence feels safer. But every act of obedience plants seeds for spiritual growth.

    In the book, I share a personal story where I didn’t want to obey—but did. And the peace that followed? Unmatched.

    Want to take this deeper?

    Download the “Obedience Audit” worksheet (below), where you’ll identify where resistance shows up in your walk, and how to respond with love-fueled action.

    Obedience isn’t perfection. It’s alignment. It’s choosing God’s way when your own instincts want the shortcut.

    And in that obedience, freedom breaks through.


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    Next up in Blog 4: Believing God’s Promises When They Feel Delayed
    Because sometimes faith means standing on the Word… even when the ground shakes.

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  • Trusting God in Uncertainty

    A NEW BOOK FOR YOU!

    How to Trust God When You Can’t See What’s Next

    Have you ever been in a season where clarity vanishes and the path forward is foggy? You’re doing your best to follow God, but every step feels like guesswork?

    In Chapter 2 of Hold Fast, we zoom in on what it means to trust God in uncertainty—not as a slogan, but as a lived-out, breath-by-breath experience.

    “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”
    —Proverbs 3:5

    Easier said than done, right?

    This chapter unpacks how trust isn’t the absence of doubt—it’s the decision to move forward despite it. Using the story of Jacob wrestling with God, we learn that trust is forged in struggle, not clarity. Like Jacob, we don’t walk away unchanged—but we do walk away deeper, humbler, more anchored.

    Here’s what you’ll take away from this chapter:

    • Why faith actually thrives in uncertainty.
    • What to do when God feels silent or distant.
    • How to pray raw, honest prayers that build deeper trust.
    • Why trust is relational—not just theological.

    You’ll also find a powerful worksheet prompt to help you name what area of your life needs surrendered trust this week, and a devotion guide through Psalm 23 to remind your soul that the Shepherd is still leading—even through the valley.

    Friend, you’re not weak for needing trust. You’re being invited into deeper intimacy with God—the kind you don’t get in seasons of certainty.

    So take the next small step.
    Pray the honest prayer.
    And let this foggy path become holy ground.

    Coming up in Blog 3: Obedience When It Costs You.
    Because trust is a beautiful start—but obedience is where the rubber meets the road.


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  • Hold Fast to God

    A NEW BOOK FOR YOU!

    Do you ever feel tossed by life’s storms, gripping at your rope in desperation? In Chapter 1 of Hold Fast, we dive into the raw power of clinging to God when the winds howl and panic sets in.

    The phrase “hold fast” isn’t fluff—it’s a battle cry. In Deuteronomy 10:20, Moses challenges the Israelites (and us today): “Fear the Lord and serve him… and hold fast to him.” That’s not a passive suggestion—it’s a life-or-death grip. 

    In this first chapter, you’ll discover:

    • What “hold fast” really means—a lifeline grip, not a cobra clasp over your coffee mug.
    • Biblical examples of grit: Jacob wrestling through the night, Elisha following Elijah, John Mark stumbling and rising again.
    • Why holding doesn’t come naturally, but why it still matters: because God’s strength is made perfect in our weakness (2 Cor 12:9).

    By the end of the chapter (and this post), you won’t just be inspired—you’ll be equipped. You’ll find practical tools: a worksheet to reflect on what drifts you off track, a devotion guide diving into Deuteronomy 10, and an activity to carry a sticky-note anchor verse all week.

    If your faith feels shaky, or if life’s shaking you, Hold Fast isn’t just a book—it’s your next step. You’ll learn:

    • How to grip God through fear, doubt, and distractions;
    • Why our grip speaks louder than our words;
    • What it means to start each day with intentional clinging.

    Ready to give it a try?
    Download the free “Hold Fast Challenge” worksheet at the end of this blog—they’re the same bite-sized tools readers get in the chapter.

    Stay tuned: in the next post we dive into Chapter 2 – Trusting in Uncertainty and discover why uncertainty isn’t your enemy—it’s your invitation to lean deeper.


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  • Thriving In The In-Between (Part 5): 5 Anchors To Keep You Steady

    We’ve covered a lot of ground in this series.

    • The in-between is that tension between God’s promise spoken and God’s promise fulfilled.
    • Moses lived it.
    • You’re living it.
    • The enemy loves to attack you here.
    • But you’re fully equipped to win the battle.

    Now what?

    How do you actually live each day in the in-between with steadiness, peace, and confidence?

    In this final post, I want to give you five simple, practical anchors — habits that will keep your soul grounded when everything else feels uncertain.


    1️⃣ Engage In Spiritual Warfare

    Let’s be blunt: the in-between isn’t neutral ground.

    The enemy is working overtime to confuse, discourage, and derail you. You must fight back.

    • Declare God’s Word aloud daily.
    • Pray with intentionality.
    • Use Scripture to silence accusation.
    • Partner with others in prayer.

    “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” (James 4:7)

    The Pirate Dance (Reflect, Remind, Reset) is your spiritual warfare blueprint.


    2️⃣ Stay Close To Jesus

    When you’re in a fog, stay close to the Guide.

    You may not see very far ahead — but you don’t need to if you stay near Him.

    • Spend time daily in His presence.
    • Don’t overcomplicate it — simply sit with Him.
    • Worship, pray, listen.
    • Let His love fill you, stabilize you, and quiet you.

    “Abide in me, and I in you.” (John 15:4)

    Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is just be with Him.


    3️⃣ Lean On Your Trusted Circle

    You are not meant to walk this alone.

    In the in-between, you need:

    • Intercessors who will pray daily.
    • Armor bearers who carry your burdens.
    • Wise counsel who help you discern.

    “Two are better than one… If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)

    Your circle isn’t a luxury — it’s a necessity.


    4️⃣ Release Your Filters

    Here’s a hard truth:

    God rarely answers our prayers in the package we expect.

    Often, our greatest frustration in the in-between comes from holding too tightly to how we think God should move.

    “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails.” (Proverbs 19:21)

    Let go of the filter. Surrender your expectations. Trust His process.

    God’s plan is always better — even if it’s different.


    5️⃣ Practice Stillness And Rest

    Sometimes, the greatest act of faith is to simply be still.

    • Sit in His presence.
    • Cast your cares on Him.
    • Declare: “It is well with my soul.”

    “Be still, and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46:10)

    Stillness is not passivity — it’s powerful trust.


    The In-Between Is Where Your Faith Gets Real

    Let’s be honest: the in-between is hard.

    But it’s also sacred ground.

    This is where your faith matures.
    This is where your roots go deep.
    This is where your intimacy with Jesus is forged.

    And when you finally step into the fulfillment of God’s promises, you’ll carry with you the strength, character, and depth that could only be developed here.

    “The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Deuteronomy 31:8)


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  • Thriving In The In-Between (Part 4): The Spiritual Battle Of The In-Between

    By now, you’ve probably realized something:

    The in-between isn’t just hard — it’s a battle.

    It’s not simply waiting for God’s promises. It’s also resisting the enemy’s attacks while you wait.

    • Attacks on your mind.
    • Attacks on your confidence.
    • Attacks on your identity.
    • Attacks on your purpose.

    The in-between is spiritual warfare.

    Let’s talk about how you fight — and win.


    The Enemy’s Strategy: Disarm, Distract, Destroy

    The Bible is clear:

    “For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world.” (Ephesians 6:12)

    In the in-between, the enemy doesn’t usually show up in obvious ways. Instead, he whispers:

    • Confusion — “You don’t know what you’re doing.”
    • Impatience — “God’s forgotten you. Take control.”
    • Doubt — “Maybe God never spoke after all.”
    • Insecurity — “Who do you think you are?”

    The goal? To disarm your faith, distract your focus, and destroy your forward progress.


    The Good News: You’re Fully Equipped

    The enemy has a strategy — but so does God.

    “The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds.” (2 Corinthians 10:4)

    You are fully equipped for this fight.

    Let’s get extremely practical.


    The Pirate Dance: Reflect, Remind, Reset

    If you’ve been listening to Coffee With Phil, you’ve heard me call this my “Pirate Dance.” (A little humour for a heavy topic; Arr, Arr, Arr.)

    But make no mistake — this is serious spiritual warfare.

    1️⃣ Reflect On What God Has Done

    • List past victories.
    • Journal answered prayers.
    • Remember how God showed up before.

    Why? Because what God has done is proof of what He can do again.

    “I will remember the deeds of the LORD; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago.” (Psalm 77:11)


    2️⃣ Remind Yourself Of What God Has Said

    • Go back to the Word.
    • Rehearse prophetic words.
    • Declare God’s promises aloud.

    Why? Because God’s Word does not expire.

    “Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.” (Matthew 24:35)


    3️⃣ Reset Yourself For Advance

    • Release your need to control outcomes.
    • Let go of your timeline.
    • Position your heart for fresh trust.

    Why? Because the in-between requires constant recalibration.

    “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:5)


    Use The Word As Your Sword

    When the enemy came after Jesus in the wilderness (Luke 4), Jesus didn’t argue, negotiate, or explain. He simply said:

    “It is written.”

    Scripture is your greatest weapon.

    • Speak it.
    • Declare it.
    • Stand on it.

    When you wield God’s Word, the enemy cannot argue with it.


    Don’t Fight Alone

    You’re not designed to battle solo.
    In the in-between, you need:

    • Intercessors — people committed to pray for you daily.
    • Armour bearers — trusted friends who carry your burdens.
    • Spiritual counsel — leaders who can help you discern wisely.

    Quick Recap: The Battle Plan

    VulnerabilityEnemy’s AttackGod’s Weapon
    ConfusionDarknessRevelation
    ImpatienceControlTrust
    DoubtFearFaith
    InsecurityIdentity CrisisSonship

    Coming Next: “5 Anchors For Thriving In The In-Between”

    In Part 5, we’ll land this series by giving you five simple but powerful actions you can take today to stay grounded and strong in the in-between.

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