“You’re almost there — but not quite.”
That moment when you’re driving toward your destination, and you instinctively sense you’re close. The GPS says 5 minutes. Your spouse pulls out the hairbrush. The anticipation rises. You can feel you’re nearly home, but you’re not quite there.
That, my friend, is the in-between — and in life, we often live there.
For Christians desiring to live obedient, steadfast lives of faith, the in-between is one of the most uncomfortable and yet most spiritually critical places we will ever occupy. It’s that space between God’s promise spoken and God’s promise fulfilled. The space where you believe, but you can’t yet see. You’re not in Egypt, but you’re not yet in the Promised Land.
In this series, I want to take you on a journey of understanding, encouragement, and practical guidance for navigating the in-between well.
The Now But Not Yet
In theology, this tension is often called the “now but not yet” of God’s kingdom. The Apostle Paul puts it this way:
“For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed.” (Romans 8:19)
In other words: the fullness of God’s kingdom has broken into the world through Jesus, but it has not yet fully come in its ultimate completion. We experience God’s promises now, but we’re still waiting for their fullness.
And in your personal life?
- The job God promised — not yet open.
- The healing you believe for — not yet visible.
- The vision for ministry — not yet fully realized.
This is the in-between.
You’re Not Alone In The Waiting
The Bible is filled with people who lived significant portions of their lives in this uncomfortable space:
- Abraham waited decades for Isaac.
- Joseph languished in prison before becoming a ruler.
- David was anointed king but spent years running for his life.
- Moses — and we’ll camp here for a bit — led Israel for 40 years, but didn’t enter the Promised Land.
Yes, even Moses, the man God spoke to face-to-face, found himself living in the in-between.
Moses: The Man Who Got Close
In the book of Deuteronomy, Moses is at the end of his journey. He led God’s people out of Egypt, through the wilderness, and to the very edge of the Promised Land.
But due to his disobedience, God tells Moses:
“You shall see the land before you, but you shall not go there, into the land that I am giving to the people of Israel.” (Deut. 32:52)
Talk about being almost there — but not yet.
And yet, what does Moses do? He faithfully delivers his final sermons (the book of Deuteronomy), preparing the people to enter what he cannot. In these final moments, Moses models how to live well in the in-between:
1️⃣ Reflect – Look back on God’s faithfulness.
2️⃣ Remind – Rehearse God’s promises.
3️⃣ Reset – Ready yourself for what’s next.
(You’ll hear me call this “The Pirate Dance” in upcoming posts. Don’t worry, it’s much more biblical than it sounds.)
The Tension We Feel
If you’re in the in-between, you know the tension:
- You trust God but still feel unsettled.
- You have faith but battle impatience.
- You believe God’s word but wrestle with doubt.
- You know your identity in Christ but sometimes feel insecure.
Friend, you are not failing because you feel these things. You’re simply human. The key is learning how to navigate these vulnerabilities rather than letting them derail your journey. That’s exactly where we’re headed in the next few posts.
The God Who Is In The In-Between
Here’s your first big takeaway:
Jesus lives in the in-between with you.
- Between life and death.
- Between sickness and healing.
- Between lack and provision.
- Between brokenness and wholeness.
- Between your past and your future.
He is Emmanuel — God with us — even in this space of waiting.
And He speaks this promise over you:
“The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” (Deuteronomy 31:8)
Coming Next: “Moses: The Leader Who Lived In The In-Between”
In Part 2, we’ll unpack how Moses handled his in-between season and what we can learn to strengthen our own walk of faith.
👉 In the meantime, if this post resonates with you, take a moment to listen to the full CWP.119 episode of my Coffee With Phil podcast where I unpack this teaching in much greater depth.